Forget everything you’ve learned about sex from religion. The Bible is explicit about what is not allowed sexually. Nothing is needed but its clear instructions.
And God does not watch intimate or personal things. He doesn’t want to. And while you are intimate or private He is not around. But He knows where you are because there are angels camping all around keeping an eye on the mice.
And for a couple who are married, don’t even worry about anything in the bedroom. Love is the only requirement. Time to fix the bedroom!
Real Christians have the best sex because we have superior freedom.
There are words that can be used in the bedroom but should never be used in public or in a vulgar way. A little fun talk goes a long way.
Frequency of sex. Talk about it with your partner.
You will be ceremonially unclean for one hour after sex. But if it is urgent or an emergency, pray anyway.
Sex is a part of life and you were created to enjoy it within marriage to the degree you would definitely not want anyone else.
Body signals indicate when Holy Spirit is active. It’s how we are designed. It is not active during private and intimate things. Isn’t Our Father a genius? It’s one of the reasons we were designed with two sets of nerves. To experience romantic love when Holy Spirit is not active. Absolute privacy.
There are some things you may experience in the bedroom that you think are Holy Spirit, but they are things called “wonderful things”. They are things in your mind. You’ll work it out.
Masturbation is a personal choice matter. We are dignified with it.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, (King James Version KJV)
These are things directed to those who will rule with Christ as Kings and Priests in Heaven but the same principles apply to everyone.
Fornication is sex between unmarried people. Common-law marriage is acceptable to God. Idolators are people who treat anything as more important than God.
The last part is directed towards men. The principle is “no sex with the same gender”.
Transsexual, Transgender and Intersex people are acceptable to God as long as they obey 1 Corinithians 6:9 which applies to everyone.
You will understand your gender by prayer to God and He will help you to be yourself. Elders are to be merciful and not look at anyone’s gender changes (Matthew 12:7).
The same thing applies to homosexual people, God understands your situation and loves you. He will help you also by prayer even if it is genetic. The problem is if it is a lifestyle choice and you reject God’s command at 1 Corinthians 6:9
Romans 1:26-32 26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
You are well within your rights to do what you want to do. You have free will. It is a gift from God. However, if you want homosexuality as a lifestyle choice, you will not live forever, only until Armageddon.